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Marriage Counselor

A short-form guessing scene: the audience gives the couple a secret problem; the couple must name it through a therapy session with the therapist's indirect questions. Trains "playing as if I know" and status.

Players

3

Difficulty

Beginner

Full description

Setup and Launch

Pick three players: two play a couple and leave the room, the third is the therapist. Ask the audience for one vivid, absurd-but-domestic problem the couple has — e.g., the husband secretly paints murals on his wife while she sleeps; the wife keeps bringing home other people's children. Lock in the exact wording so the coach can check it at the end.

Explain the rules: the therapist knows the problem and must guide the couple toward it through indirect questions — no naming it outright. The couple plays as if they fully understand their own situation, commits to a shared story, and tries to eventually state the problem themselves. The tone is a therapy session, not an interrogation.

Play

  1. Opening the session. The couple returns, the therapist welcomes them in character. Brief pleasantries to establish the relationship and the office setting. The coach watches for any meta-comments or "what's happening?" — players stay fully inside the scene reality.

  2. Broad exploration. The therapist asks wide, open-ended questions — daily routines, habits, recurring arguments — gradually narrowing the territory without giving anything away. The couple answers with specific details and stays aligned: no contradicting each other's scene facts.

  3. Focused narrowing. As patterns surface, questions get sharper: when does it happen, where, what are the consequences? If the scene stalls, the coach side-coaches the therapist: "shift from causes to effects" or "try a different angle." The couple keeps their confidence and shared version intact.

  4. Reveal and wrap. The moment one player names the problem (or gets close enough), the therapist summarizes the session briefly and the coach calls the scene. If things drag, the coach feeds the therapist one more pointed question, then ends it.

Key rules

  • Ask the audience for a vivid, specific, everyday problem — avoid anything hard to play safely or humorously. The sharper the suggestion, the cleaner the scene.

  • The therapist never names keywords from the suggestion and avoids blunt yes/no questions. Start with broad, open questions and narrow progressively — think funnel, not spotlight.

  • The couple answers confidently and stays aligned. One shared reality, no contradictions, no meta-play. If your partner says something unexpected, build on it — don't correct it.

  • When things stall, the coach side-coaches the therapist: try a new angle, shift from causes to consequences, or ask about a different time of day. One nudge is usually enough.

  • End the scene as soon as the problem is named or closely approximated. Don't play past the reveal — the discovery is the payoff, and lingering kills it.

Context

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